Before any consultation, you can run the single most predictive test in this niche at home. You need a small ruler and a relaxed face.
Stand at a mirror, face fully relaxed — no smiling, no lip tension. Place a ruler vertically from the base of your nose (where the columella meets the lip skin) to the top edge of the pink upper lip (the vermilion border, at the peak of the Cupid's bow). Read the millimetres. Phone-camera side profiles help you check you're measuring straight.
Relax your face, part your lips slightly, look straight ahead. Youthful anatomy shows 2–4 mm of upper incisor at rest. If your upper teeth have vanished entirely — a change many people notice in photos before mirrors — a long or lengthened philtrum is usually the mechanism, and it's precisely what a lift restores.
Send them with your photos. A philtrum length, a tooth-show estimate and two relaxed-face photos let assessment give you a genuinely specific answer: how many millimetres a lift would take, where your scar would sit, or — just as valuably — "your proportions don't need this operation." The ruler costs nothing; neither does the honest read.